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I want to share a game-changing tip that has transformed the dynamics of my marriage and brought a sense of unity and understanding to our household – the weekly marriage meeting.
As moms, our lives are a whirlwind of diaper changes, school runs, and meal preps. In the midst of this chaos, it’s easy for the connection with our partners to slowly become less of a concern.
That’s where the weekly marriage meeting comes in – a dedicated time for you and your spouse to reconnect, communicate, and ensure your relationship remains a priority.
This post is all about the power of holding a weekly marriage meeting in your home.
Weekly Marriage Meeting
1. Communication Boost
In the hustle and bustle of family life, it’s common for communication gaps to emerge. The weekly marriage meeting provides a structured space for open and honest communication. We share our highs and lows of the week, discuss upcoming events, and address any concerns.
My husband and I often kiss each other goodnight as fast as we say good morning. Kids, careers, the house, and many other responsibilities often keep us from actually sitting down and having a conversation.
This intentional weekly marriage meeting strengthens the bond between partners. We set up goals for the following week and reviewed any we didn’t accomplish and why. We also look over the budget and discuss our financial goals as well.
2. Alignment on Parenting
Raising kids is a team effort, and the marriage meeting is the perfect platform to discuss parenting strategies, challenges, and victories. By aligning our parenting approaches, my husband and I have created a more cohesive and supportive environment for our children.
By allowing this space to discuss our goals with our girls, I noticed we had a happier and healthier relationship toward not only being their parents but also with our girls in general. We were able to better regulate our emotions which helped better regulate our girl’s emotions.
By discussing our approaches, concerns, and victories, my husband and I have created a united front, providing a stable and supportive environment for our children.
3. Shared Responsibilities
#Momlife often means we are juggling a multitude of tasks. The marriage meeting allows us to divide household responsibilities more effectively. By discussing our schedules and commitments for the upcoming week, we ensure that the workload is distributed fairly, reducing stress and fostering teamwork.
I will be honest with you, this was a real sore spot for a long needs. They sometimes see us as “supermom” and think we can juggle it all. Not an insult at all but that doesn’t help us, we are normal moms with a lot on our plates.
We need all help from our spouses and this meeting allows them to understand each other.
Now, that we both understand each other’s needs, we have never been happier and our marriage has since flourished and I have more energy at the end of the day.
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4. Quality Time
Amidst the chaos of daily life, finding quality time with your partner can be a challenge. The marriage meeting carves out a dedicated time slot each week for just the two of you. It’s a chance to reconnect, share dreams and aspirations, and simply enjoy each other’s company without the distractions of daily life.
Every Sunday, we will sit down after the kids have gone to sleep and discuss everything. We often leave feeling more in love and connected without all the noise of the day.
The beauty of this weekly spouse check in is that it can be as formal or informal as you want it. Set up at the kitchen counter or go out to eat and bring out the notes. Whatever it takes to get engaged and focused.
5. Problem Solving
Every relationship faces challenges, and instead of letting them fester, the weekly marriage meeting provides a proactive space to address issues. By approaching problems together, my husband and I have found that we can navigate challenges more effectively. Thus, leading us to a stronger and more resilient relationship.
I allow my husband to lead our household because our weekly meetings fill me with peace. And the confidence that we are both on the same page. It also lets me rest and relax.
We have a game plan for the week that has him, our kids, and my best interests in mind.
In Conclusion
The weekly marriage meeting has been a game-changer for our family. It’s not just a meeting; it’s a commitment to nurturing our relationship despite the chaos of family life.
Remember, in the beautiful chaos of motherhood, intentional moments of connection can be the glue that holds everything together. Cheers to nurturing love and laughter in our homes!
