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Are you looking for a creative Valentine’s Day gifts for your husband? Here are 35 sexy things to do for husband on valentines Day.
Valentine’s Day is a special day to celebrate love and affection between couples. As a busy mom, I understand that finding the time and energy to plan something special for your husband can be challenging.
Many husbands will go out and buy themselves things throughout the year, making it difficult to find something valuable to gift them. MY husband loves the playing the bass/music but that usually requires research or he’s already bought what he was searching for.
That’s why I’ve put together a list of 35 sexy things you can spoil your husband on Valentine’s Day to show him how much you care. Because he deserves to be spoiled just as much as you.
This post is all about happy valentines day for husbands.
Valentine’s Day Gifts
What to Do for Husband for Valentine’s Day?
We all want creative Valentine’s Day gifts for husband because he is worth it. He has provided for you and the family and made a safe place for your emotions; you can’t imagine life without him.
Although you show him love and appreciation every day, you want to do it up big on Valentine’s Day. Besides, it is a little bit of a competition.
35 Valentines Gift Ideas for Husband
1. Plan a romantic dinner with his favorite meal and a bottle of wine at home
My husband is a little different, he doesn’t drink so I would treat him to sparkling cider. His favorite meal that I make is Mississippi pot roast, mashed potatoes, and roasted broccoli.
2. Surprise him with a romantic weekend getaway
Book an Airbnb or plan a staycation without the kids. Laugh, play, and just take in each other’s company. My husband and I went to Pigeon Forge, TN, and just had the best time in the mountains.
3. Write him a love letter expressing your feelings for him
I will admit, the last time I wrote him a love letter was 7 years ago with my vows. This is something I actually will do; along with number 1. The years can get long and busy, but don’t forget that although he may not say it, he longs to hear if you still love him.
4. Give him a massage with scented candles and soothing music
You can purchase some massage oil from Amazon or just purchase baby oil. Light his favorite or a relaxing scent and play some music to set the mood. I would suggest a lavender candle and a lo-fi or soft jazz playlist.
5. Wear his favorite lingerie and surprise him when he comes home from work
Brownie points if you have a trench coat and some heels. Purr
6. Have a bubble bath together with rose petals and champagne
I love this. It’s so intimate and relaxing. Dim the lights, talk about your dreams and desires, and let the bubbles take you away.
7. Cook him breakfast in bed with heart-shaped pancakes
Include a cup of coffee or his favorite juice, bacon or ham, and a heartfelt card.
8. Take him on a surprise date to his favorite place
Does he have a restaurant that he loves that may not be your favorite? Or does he have a place that has a lot of meaning and can plan a picnic there? It’ll mean a lot to him that you went this extra mile for him.
9. Give him a foot rub after a long day at work
Another Valentines day gift ideas for husbands would be to take his mind off of work. Let him take the load off and relax after a draining day of work. Help ease his mind and melt the day away.
10. Plan a picnic in the park with his favorite snacks
I bought a picnic basket off Etsy and some cute glasses at Target. You can do finger foods or a whole pizza.
11. Buy him a thoughtful gift that shows you know him well
My husband is a musician and a gamer. So any gift that has either quality means a lot to him. My father loves Star Wars, Sci-Fi, and his car. Show him that you pay attention to him and his hobbies.
12. Give him a sensual dance performance
If you can pull this off, Kudos to you! I simply cannot haha, I giggle too much and wind up feeling unsexy. Even though I have given up on this, you can give him a happy valentines day for husband surprise.
13. Take him out for a night of dancing or karaoke
I cannot hold a tune, so this is a no for me but could be super fun to unleash your inner superstar.
14. Plan a surprise photo shoot for just the two of you
It can be as stylized or goofy as you want. I have been seeing a trend of awkward JcPenny photoshoots and I REALLY want to get on this trend.
15. Write down reasons why you love him and hide them around the house for him to find
Plan a cute and flirty scavenger hunt around the house. You can make the game as clean or as dirty as you want.
16. Plan a game night with his favorite board games and snacks
Game night is my favorite night whether with friends or family. So it’s no surprise that I enjoy game night with my very best friend. It allows us to get competitive and see who is the better player.
Below are some classics:
Some other game ideas:
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17. Watch his favorite movie together with his favorite snacks
Or explore a cheesy Tubi movie together, a new thriller, or an action movie.
18. Give him a surprise lap dance
Catch him off guard and let him see what kind of night he might be in for.
19. Plan a day out doing his favorite activities
My husband’s favorite day out activities are non-existent. He’s a homebody and all his things are at home. However, if you have a guy that loves the outdoors there are plenty of choices. Hiking, a trail walk, snorkeling, and a day at the beach are some amazing ideas.
20. Cook him his favorite dessert
My homemade Chocolate chip cookies have recently become my husband’s favorite sweet. You could make a pie, a cake, or even brownies. You can even buy it (I won’t tell)
21. Give him a romantic card and fill it with sweet messages
You can make a card or buy a card, write something from the heart that he can read whenever he feels down.
22. Have a wine and cheese night together
Walmart, Food Lion, Harris Teeter, or any grocery store of your choosing would have both wine and cheese. I have a heart-shaped cheeseboard (I was gifted this, pictured below) to add a special touch.
Here’s something similar from Amazon
23. Plan a candlelit dinner on the beach
There is something romantic about watching the sunset together. Watching the world slowly become still and it’s just the two of you.
24. Give him a surprise boudoir photo album of yourself
These three photographers were top-rated for boudoir photography on Google for North Carolina. This is an idea that I am considering.
25. Play a sexy game of strip poker together
Unleash your competitive side…along with some clothes for a memorable couples game night.
26. Plan a surprise weekend glamping trip
Or camping for the non-glampers. I am not one for traditional camping as I cannot stand critters, spiders, and bugs. No, thank you. I like to be comfortable. However, you can still have a romantic time in nature.
27. Give him a sexy lap dance in his favorite outfit
This doesn’t always mean lingerie. It could be his favorite color on you or a dress that drives him crazy. As long as you’re comfortable, it’ll be sexy to hubby.
28. Plan a surprise brunch date
Plan a brunch date at your favorite local, downtown restaurant.
29. Write him a poem expressing your love for him
Roses are red, Violets are blue, and I’m still madly in love with you. Boom!
30. Enjoy a romantic night with his favorite snacks and a movie
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31. Attend a virtual or in-person cocktail class and learn how to make each other’s favorite drinks
Easily swap it for mocktails if neither one of you likes to drink.
32. Play Naughty Truth or Drink to add spice to the night
33. Plan a DIY Spa Night.
This means not only are you saving money, but this also allows you to be intimate with each other in private. And I’m almost certain you have most of the items needed. ahem, I’m looking at you baby oil.
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34. Have a moonlit dinner in the backyard
Hear the beautiful music of the night and enjoy the stillness of the world together.
35. Make him a sexy coupon booklet
Create or purchase a coupon booklet that he can cash in at any time. You can use Canva or write them all out on strips of paper.
Remember, the most important thing is to show your husband how much you love and appreciate him. These ideas are just some suggestions to help you plan a special valentines day for husbands.
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